“Build a world that is inviting to a woman!”

Do you know a man whose world is filled with chaos, unhealthy habits, immaturity, and lacks goals and stability? Men still want to attract a good woman up to and including marriage. Some women get in the trap of trying to date a man based on the potential they see in him without any tangible justifications. His current living conditions are an indication of what his future would be like. He does not have to have an expensive home but that does not mean it should be clean, furnished, and organized. Is he self-sufficient and has a handle on life’s responsibilities? Is he concerned with health and wellness? Does he have an excellent work ethic and values a stable career? Why would a woman join a man’s world with no vision or goals that forecast what life would be like in a long-term relationship with him? 

A man’s world should be inviting to a woman and characterized by stability, family oriented, financial independence, protection, adventurous, and always evolving. When you walk into a man’s place you should light up as though you could see yourself making his house into a home. His place is clean and has all the essentials needed. He has a career or is working hard to establish a career that allows him to be a provider. His approach is organized, and she can envision him taking the lead with her best interest at heart. He has demonstrated success, and she can see how her support can expedite his progress. He has a life vision that is limitless and she desires to be an essential part of it. As men, we will do well in life by creating an attractive world that a deserving women would love to join.